BDSM and fetish guides and ideas

Our glossary list of kinky, strange, titillating and erotic fantasy fetishes and paraphilias

This page was last editorially caned on Nov 25, 2017 @ 12:06 pm.

Ablutophilia

A fascination with Baths or showers. Hoses, and powered enemas included. Uberkinky in Europe do some super items to promote your overall and genital cleanliness.

Acomoclitic

Veet

Veet (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

A fetish for shaving and creating hairless genitals. If it’s the perfect smooth greek statue look you’re after, look no further than Veet or Veet for Men, followed by Dove deodorant stick, as used by porn stars, to prevent ingrown bumps.

Acrophilia

A deviant desire to have sex in high places. We recommend United Airlines, who seem to fly a little bit higher, or for the real daredevil, Virgin Balloons.

Acrotomophilia

For those how have hardons over people with fewer limbs. Includes stump sex.

Agalmatophilia/Pygmalionism

A fascination with having sex with statues or mannequins. In Europe, Marks and Spencers shop figures are in high demand due to the high quality wooden materials and 360 degree moveable joints.

Agonophilia

Play-rape, pretend struggle or fighting play as a form of foreplay. Think kink.com’s naked wrestling with the winner pinning the loser down and engaging in long anal thrusting for reward…

Agoraphilia

Sex in public places, for example, dunes, toilets, parks or vibrating tram cars. We recommend Maspalomas in Spain for healthy naturist straight, bi or gay open air sex in the dunes and shrubs. People openly wave cocks, grab tits or bend over if interested. Different areas exist for different activities and being sub tropical, it’s popular all year round. The police turn a blind eye, and even helpfully patrol to prevent theives etc, and their are condom and lube sellers on the beach. Lovely hotels in Maspalomas is worth looking at and booking, and to arrange a dunes hook up with a total stranger, visit Squirt.org‘s cruising section.

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Algolagnia

Love of pain. Important in BDSM. Sometimes known as a pain slut or pain pig.

Altocalciphilia

A sexual fascination with High heels. Often involves anus, vagina or urethra. (Ooh!). Often features in domme scenarios with rubber and dungeons.

Amaurophilia

Partner who is unable to see them during sex, blind/blindfolded sex partner. Better know as hoods and masks, and sensory deprivation.

Anasteemaphilia

Taller or shorter partners. Think Mick Fleetwood and Sam Fox at the Brits, naked with sweaty thrusting action and footstools. Or not.

Asthenolagnia

Weakness/being humiliated. Often involves demanding mistresses with a power complex. Yes we do like this.

Autonephioplia

Sexual fascination for diapers or nappies. Personally I like to have my slaves go for hours without pissing, and then lightly trundle an electrified wartenberg wheel over their inner thigh and buttock areas, until they let go in a urinary explosion. Nice.

Belonephilia

Pins/needles/sharp objects. Some masters like to insert them into willing sub’s cocks, scrotums, nipples, labia, belly-buttons, buttocks or other, more imaginative locations.

C

Choreophilia

Dancing to orgasmic release. We recommend poppers for this.

D

Dysmorphophilia

Deformed or physically impaired partners. There’s nothing more exciting than an unusual cock or pussy. Except perhaps a bad dragon toy.

E

Electrophilia

Electricity. Also know as estim, electro, electro play,or  electro erotic stimulation. Erostek, PES Electro, Folsom and Estim systems are the main players.

Exhibitionism

Showing genitals in public. Otherwise known as flashing, or FKK when it involves horny german men over a certain age.

F

Fisting

Pretty easy to figure out. Best attempted with j-lube and slippery gloves.

H

Hypoxyphilia

Sexual arousal from the limiting or withholding of oxygen. Often involves hoods, suits, masks and sensory deprivation. Needs a partner / dom for safety. We all liked Michael Hutchence, but…

K

Kinesophilia

Exercise. The Monkey Rocker is a great start for horny work out fetishists.

Klismaphilia

Being given an enema. Enough pressure on the G-spot or prostate can be … really horny.

Knismolagnia

Being tickled.

M

Macrogenitalism

Large genitals. Everyone should try accommodating enormous sex parts at least once in their lifetime.

Masochism

Being dominated/humiliated. Read the rest of this article, bitch boy!

Mastigophilia

Punishment. Make sure you thank your master after the flogging.

Megalophilia

Large objects. For size queens and those who want to readjust their gspot or remodel their prostate into orgasm.

Merinthophilia

Being bound. Also known as bondage, rope bondage or being tied. You must visit the two knotty boys website.

Microgenitalism

Small genitals. Small tits, small cocks, small ball, small labia, small buttocks, small holes, small feet. Anything small. Some fetishists seek out genetically small partners. My first mistress had a real thing for Kallmann syndrome guys – perfect individuals with very small balls but very hard and bullet power squirting cocks that would last for hours like Duracell bunnies.

N

Nyctophilia

Darkness or night. Things that go bump into your orfices.

O

Oculolinctus

Licking their partner’s eyeball. Also known as worming. Popular in Japan with teenagers.

P

Phallophilia

Large penis/large penis fetish. Also known as a size queen. Some prefer length, size girth – but size queens want it all.

Plushophilia

Stuffed toys. Admit it, your childhoood toy was your first totally submissive sex partner, yes?

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Pygmalionis

Rubbing one’s body against a statue/statue/mannequins. Visit the sex museum in Amsterdam. So little time and so many sculptural pleasures…

R

Robotism

Robots in sex play. We believe in the next 50 years most sex will be firstly remote controlled and cyber, and then eventually, robotic. Imagine having unlimited kink at the touch of your start menu… Beware of AI though… “I’ll be back!”

S

Sadism

Dominating/mistreating/humiliating one’s partner. Masters, Tops, Doms, Mistresses etc.

T

Transformation fetish

Depictions of transformations of people into objects/other beings. This might be another character, a mythical being or another creature. It might simply involve inserting a plastic horses tail up your partner’s rectum or wearing a dog hood. For some it’s the ultimate blow job from a vampire or a long session with Ripley’s alien.

Triolism

Three-party sex. Also know as a three-way it might also develop into a spit-roast or a gang bang.

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U

Urtication

Stinging nettles stimulating the skin.

V

Vaccinophilia

Being vaccinated. Vaccinations often involve big needles and even bigger nurses.

Vincilagnia

Being tied up. See Merinthophilia.

Voyeurism

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Maspalomas, Gran Canaria. The shrubs are full of horny couples shagging strangers and naked gay men posing, sucking or fucking.  (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Watching others have sex. Sand Dunes are excellent for this and we recommend Maspalomas in Gran Canaria, Spain. Everything you’ve ever imagined and a whole lot more happens deep in the dune shrubbery. Holidays to Maspalomas is a good start.

X

Xenophilia

Strangers. Didn’t anyone warn you about taking gifts from strangers, especially in your mouth?

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